Tuesday, December 2, 2008

kindred spirits

In the car tonight as I was driving Marissa and I home from our swim practice we sang hymns, other praise songs, and some Christmas songs. What a joy it is to have a sister who enjoys many of the same things (who else can go from signing, to playing a sport, to joking, back to singing (our voices cracking in the most awkward places, but in unison), and then enjoy espirit moments?)! I was thinking about what a special friend God gave me as a sister. I am so thankful for Marissa and all that we share together =). We've had our tough times, no doubt (quarrels over trifles, heated conversations about who-knows-what, a few tangible hurts (I'm sorry Rissa), and spouts of harsh words) but our relationship has grown, strengthen, and be stretched over the past 16 1/2 years that we've shared the same family (and most of the time the same room). I cherish the time we spend together the memories we've made. I thought I'd take a few moments to share some pictures from over the years:














I love you Marissa, thanks for being so....encouraging, thoughtful, loving, caring, sweet, inspiring, supportive, responsible, understanding, cheerful, enthusiastic, jovial, sensible, reliable, vivacious, and well...YOU!
Today my history text book for my Government and Constitution class discussed whether government has too much power and along the lines of that it began talking about taxpayers dollars and where they go. I knew Americans' money has been used in very liberal and disappointing ways (to say the least) but I was not quite ready for what I read. 

"The federal government pays money for schools that would probably go out of business if they had to compete with other schools providing a better education for their students.  The government pays cash to artists who are not good enough to earn a decent living on their own. And it gives money to farmers, whether or not they actually need the financial help." 

My textbook also said that the government has for decades payed farmers to not raise certain crops! The book shared a letter that had been written to a Congressman who is involved with agricultural issues. The letter is pretty funny so I thought I'd share it. 

"Dear Representative: 

I need your advice with an agricultural situation, please. My friend, Ed Pererson, who lives in Wells, Iowa, received a check for $1,ooo from the government for not raising hogs. So, I want to go into the "not raising hogs" business next year

What I want to know is, in your opinion, what is the best kind of farm not to raise hogs on, and what is the best breed of hogs not to raise? I want to be sure that I approach this endeavor in keeping with all government policies. 

I would prefer not to raise razorbacks, but if that is not a good breed not to raise, then I will just as gladly not raise Yorkshire or Durocs. 

As I see it, the hardest part of this program will be in keeping an accurate inventory of how many hogs I haven't raised. 

My friend, Peterson, is very joyful about the future of the business. He has been raising hogs for 30 years or so, and the best he ever made on them was $422 in 1968, until this year when he got your check for $1,000 for not raising hogs. 

If I get $1,000 for not raising 50 hogs, will I get $2,000 for not raising 100 hogs? I plan to operate on a small scale at first, holding myself down to about 4,000 hogs not raised, which would mean about $80,000 the first year. Then I can afford and airplane. 

Now, another thing, these hogs that I will not raise will not eat 100,000 bushels of corn. I understand that you also pay farmers for not raising corn and wheat. Will I qualify for payments for not raising wheat and corn not to feed the 4,000 hogs that I am not going to raise?

Also, I am considering the "not milking cows" business, so send me any information you have on that, too. 

In view of these circumstances, you understand that I will be totally unemployed and plan to file for unemployment and food stamps. 

Be assured that you will have my vote in the coming election. 

Patriontically yours, 

Harry Calahan

P.S. Would you please notify me when you plan to distribute more free cheese?"

According to my text book, the U.S government spent trillions of dollars in the 1900's for "alleviating poverty, relieving suffering, and increasing the standard of living for selected individuals. Public housing, public education, food stamps, health care.....and more." My teacher, the author of the book, goes on to say that trillions upon trillions of dollars will be spent during the 21st century on more such "good causes" and other things. My only question is: "is it any wonder that our economy is in the position it's in?" There is more I could share about large government and how much government have stepped outside their boundaries, but swim practice awaits....  =)

~Marissa

Monday, December 1, 2008

Christmas Decorations

Since Curtis did the work and took the pictures it was only fair that he get to write the post.  If you'd like to see them you can check out his blog here.  Please feel free to leave your comment on his blog.  I know he'd love to hear from you and I'll check there to read them.  
I hope you are enjoying the advent season.

Saturday, November 29, 2008

So Blessed!

I've been thinking this morning about how blessed I am.  

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving celebration with friends and family here at the house.  You can read all about it and see a few pictures on Curtis' blog here.  I am especially thankful to have my grandmother still living.  It was a blessing to have her here along with my aunt and uncle from the Phoenix area and my sister and her family up from Las Cruces.  (Thank you all for coming!!!)

My dear husband had to work today, not exactly what he wanted to do since it is the Saturday after Thanksgiving and the day before Curtis leaves to go back to school.  Never-the-less off he went to work with nary a complaint!  What a faithful provider God has blessed our family with.

Curtis is willing spending his last day of break decorating our home for the Advent/Christmas season.  It is windy and cold outside today, yet he just keeps hanging up the outside lights and patiently teaching his three little brothers godly manhood.  If you know Curtis you know he is all about intentionality.  He has learned to be even more so, in my opinion, through his time in Moscow.  We are blessed to be hearing all about Sabbath Dinners, hospitality, etc.  We will miss him as he heads back to school early tomorrow morning but will eagerly wait his return in just three weeks for his Christmas break.

We will decorate inside when they are done outside.  We like to use greenery and nativity scenes for most of our decorating.  We're still debating if we want to put up a tree this year There is never a really good place for one and doing the furniture shuffle seems less than appealing. We'll post some pictures when we get it done. 

Caity woke up yesterday with the stomach bug, but if you know Caity you know it was endured with a quiet acceptance.  She is feeling much better and finally ate a small cup of soup for lunch. So far so good.  We are looking forward to the house being filled with the delicious smells from her Christmas baking list.  She is planning on making gift baskets for Chris' employees and the items on her list....yummy!

Life is good here and I am acutely aware of God's provision in our lives.  We are blessed to have a warm beautiful home on this cold day and plenty of wood for the fireplace, there is a roast cooking for another bountiful meal tonight, we will get to worship the Triune God with our church family tomorrow in a very intentional, meaningful way.

Advent starts tomorrow and I am really looking forward to our celebration of it this year.  For at least 10 years we've read a book out of an advent series (there are three books and we rotate each year) but this year we are adding "Readings and Devotions for Advent, 12 Days of Christmas, and Epiphany".  This is a wonderful time of year and I am thankful for all of it!


Thursday, November 20, 2008

Our Family Heraldry

I have spent some time looking up facts on our family crest. I posted it on a blog some friends and I are trying to keep up-to-date with information we are learning during our history studies this year. If you would like to read it click here.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

No need to boost his ego!

Yesterday I received a note from Russell asking how school was going and if I was hoping to finish up soon so I could go to college like Curtis. At the end of the note it said " I love you! You're cute. Love Russell."  So I wrote him back this morning and had the audacity to not mention that he was "cute." He later came in to thank me and seeing his note still on my desk he wanted me to read it to him. So I did and when I got to the end he says:
 "Why didn't you tell me that I am cute?"
Marissa: No reason. I just didn't. Did you want me to? *shrugs shoulders
Russell: Yes. . . 
Marissa: Do you think you're cute?
Russell: (without hesitation) YEP!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Knights in Training

The boys and I are in AO yr 2, which is the Middle Ages for history.  Caity is also studying the Middle Ages in Gileskirk.  We've had lots of talk about knights and the boys have been playing "knights and castles" (more aptly named knights and SWORDS!!!) quite a bit. 

Recently in one of our readings an explanation was given of the stages toward Knighthood.  First is the "page", a young man from 7-14 who serves the ladies in the castle.  Second is "squire", a young man from 14-21 who serves the men and learns to yield weapons.  Third, and finally (so far as we know), is the Knight.  A squire who has faithfully fulfilled his duties and proven himself qualified is dubbed a knight.  

OK, I realize you aren't here for a history lesson so I'll proceed with the point.  As you know we have three boys in the 7-14 age range.  God has given us multiple opportunities to put our history learning into practice.  My boys all find it quite the challenge to submit to the females in this house.  They would much rather be in charge all the time.  As you can imagine that doesn't work very well.  It has really helped them to see progression in the stages to knighthood.  They can "see" that they need to be like pages and faithfully say "yes, ma'am" to all the instruction given them by the ladies of the "castle" so that they can eventually be prepared to take their post serving the men as "squire".  

We've talked about it extensively.  I'm hoping I'll have some little pages running (I mean walking) around here soon.


Sunday, November 16, 2008

cookie painting

Mom asked me to bake a batch of these sugar cookies for the potluck at church today. Marissa, Mark, and Scott helped me decorate them. They did such a great job and the cookies turned out so pretty, I thought you all would like to see them =).


before the frosting


my helpers


the tray of cookies


...and some for Daddy when he comes home tomorrow =)

Friday, November 14, 2008

Studying in the Sun


They may not agree on how to dress in the cold but they both agree on where is the best place to study on a chilly November morning.  

Thursday, November 13, 2008

My Marissa

In contrast to the practically summery picture of Caity this is how Marissa dresses for cold weather.  She bundles up in her warm down jacket and puts on her really cute hat (sadly you can't see it very well here).  She walks down each day to get our mail (as is only fair as most of the good stuff is for her).  What different thermostats my dear daughters have.

It is a good thing that Marissa has this jacket and hat, she'll be needing it.  She has voluntarily started doing all the outside (read cold weather) chores that Curtis had done so faithfully.  She gets out early to drive the trash down in the 4-wheeler (ok, so maybe there is a bit of fun involved), she feeds the dog and cares for the chickens early each morning, she'll become our snow shoveler (training the boys to take over), and the road plower (again using the 4-wheeler). Curtis did a good job training her and I'm so glad that she doesn't mind the cold weather.  

What a blessing you are to all to all of us!